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You are responding to need OVERWHELMED…don’t know what to do…:
I am a single mother of three children ages 15, 13 and 6. Their father chooses not to be in their lives despite the fact that they are old enough to tell him that they want to see him and he still refuses...can’t shine a terd. And now, my back up support is gone and I no longer have any more family, I am overwhelmed.
For the past 3 years I have been taking care alzheimer stricken mother and she recently took a turn for the worse and had to be placed in a nursing home. I have also been taking care of my cancer stricken grandmother for the past 5 years.
She just passed away and she left me her beautiful home and $2,000. Good right? Except the mortgage alone is $2,000 per month (she refinanced 6 months ago)the other basic bills such as food, water, electric and gas come up to a whopping $1,500 more per month.
I want to keep the house but, I do not have a job because I was taking care of them and mostly because I have chronic abdominal pain syndrome as a result of my 4 ovarian cancer surgeries and 12 endometriosis surgeries while taking care of my family. I never really healed properly. It all happened so fast. And just Monday, I found two lumps in my breast. I was out on disability but because I would only go to the emergency room when the pain was out of control, my job decided that they needed to release me. I have enrolled in classes to finish my bachelor’s degree and hopefully the pain will dissipate so that I can take care of my family. Even if it does not, I will work through it again
So, to make a long story short, I have no income and $3,500 in basic monthly expenses. Banks won’t do a no doc loan and whoo...I AM OVERWHELMED...in danger of losing our home and starving. PLEEEEEase if you can help us in any way, please call me at 240-328-0955. Thank you so much in advance for your assistance.
Posted by overwhelmed MD USA on July 22, 2008